Deep Conversation Starters
Question cards60 cards~25 minConversation
About this deck
Sixty questions for the conversations that start after the easy topics run out. These aren't interview questions or therapy prompts — they're the kind of question one friend asks another at the end of a long dinner, when the table has thinned out and someone finally says something true.
A good deep question has two properties: anyone can answer it, and no two people answer it the same way. That's the bar every card here had to clear. Some reach backward (what you'd tell a younger you), some reach forward (what you're quietly building toward), and some just hold up a mirror at an unusual angle. None of them have right answers, and the best ones tend to get answered twice — once quickly, then again honestly a minute later.
The deck shuffles by default. Draw one card and actually stay on it; a single question given ten minutes beats ten questions given one. Heart the ones that opened something up — they're saved in your browser, and the session report collects them with a copy button so a good conversation can leave a trail.
Frequently asked questions
- When should I use these?
- Long drives, late dinners, campfires, first months of a friendship, twentieth year of a friendship. Anywhere the small talk has run out and the company is worth more than that.
- Are these too intense for casual settings?
- They're deep, not invasive. Nothing here demands trauma or secrets — every card leaves the answerer in control of how far to go, which is what makes people willing to go far.
- How is this different from the icebreaker deck?
- Icebreakers are built to be answered in thirty seconds in front of coworkers. These are built to be answered in ten minutes in front of people you trust. Different tools.
- Can I save the questions that worked?
- Yes — heart a card and it's kept in your browser. The report at the end of a session lists your favorites with one-tap copy.
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